CONSISTENCY IS THE KEY TO SUCCESS

What I have been able to decipher in my course of life is really good to understand but extremely useful to pursue. You know there are many ways of performing anything there are people who load themselves at a time and sometimes manage it most of the times not.
But the people who are consistent in their effort pass through the path very smoothly. it is not at all easy to be consistent. It takes a lot of effort and determination to be consistent. It also takes “just do it” approach. The moment we start thinking about what should be done or what shouldn’t be, we become weak.
There is sometimes a dilemma, which exactly is not a dilemma but just a wrong perception. Sometimes it seems as if the people who are irregular but work very hard at the time of final test, perform well. But let me tell u this is a big myth. People who work hard consistently are always successful, they are the people who enjoy and win. Sometimes we are tempted to becoming lazy and inconsistent but that is just a temptation. Now a day I am having a lot of leisure time. You know what happens during such times we fall prey to becoming lazy and inconsistent. But one is actually not able to enjoy even without being consistent. These are some of the lesions which I have learnt

GOD IS THE REAL DOER, WE ARE JUST THE MEDIUM

But often we fall prey to the feeling having done something. This is what is ego. We start to think ourselves something. Our nature becomes domineering ,and this disease spreads like a syndrome. There are multiple effects which destroy our achievements, for example we start doing injustice to the people who are lower in hierarchy ,we fall prey to laziness because our psychology makes us so. We develop a rigid behavior. We start hating the changes which could be very favorable. Our perception becomes more self-centered and we start to ignore others. This dents our business. And these things sum to our downfall.
But of course things should be taken in right spirit. Here on earth, everything has to be done by us. This is what is our job .we have to perform to our fullest. Then only we actually did our job on this earth. Here we are the creators of our destiny; we are responsible for our actions. But we must remember that we are the small part of the big game played by almighty. We are his representatives. We are having all powers to do what ever we want, but he watches every thing and as soon as we go out of way he shows us the ground. So always be faithful to almighty and break all the limits of success to become the best.

HOW TO CONTROL YOUR ANGER

There are times, when aggression might help. You would have seen aggression pays well and in sports. But the crude truth is that, if someone gets out of way i.e. very angry then he gets carried away. He starts bowling wrong lengths .What I myself feel is that an anger accumulated is the most dangerous thing. It sucks our capability to think properly and we actually start punishing ourselves. If we start using anger as a tool then the problem might dampen a bit .But, I must say that there are people who become angry on very small things that really are insignificant & in this way they become of victim of anger and the agency that wanted to disturb them. For example, someone insults you publicly, certainly this could be quite irritating; but we have to keep ourselves calm, which is a difficult thing. Let me suggest you one of the easiest way. Just imagine, what would happen if the man strips and goes nude, this is going to be amazing. I think nothing can be funnier than this. Now you just have to face the man, I can assure you that his confidence will be dented; when he finds you not getting disturbed.

Let us talk some wisdom now. It is your work that gives you recognition. The opinion of some rubbish people must not distract you. We have a capability to change our way of thinking.
But, when we face some injustice or when we aren’t' been able to give our best then we are extremely angry. In the latter case we put on efforts to accomplish the task. But the most difficult case arises when you face some injustice for example, I went to a cyber café, I was using the net but system was working badly. To my astonishment rather than regretting, the owner of the cyber cafe charged me full money. This really irritated me a lot. This is the case when I have been treated unjustifiably but I can’t do anything. But still there is a sure shot way to make him feel ashamed i.e.we can always let him feel bad by subtle and polite arguments, and there are chances that he might revert his decision too. But our irritation insane s us and we loose our ability to think suitably. How to get back to the normal cheering senses, use the same technique as I mentioned earlier. This is going to fill you with the energy and rather than being scared of him you will making fun of him. It is never bad to make fun of an unlawful bullish.